“If your goal is to become financially secure, you’ll likely attain it…. But if your motive is to make money to spend money on the good life,… you’re never gonna make it.” Thomas Stanley and William Danko

Your financial independence is far more important than showing off your wealth, according to authors of Millionaire Next Door, Thomas Stanley and William Danko. They assert that millionaires frequently remind themselves that those who spend all their income on high-priced luxury items often don’t have much accumulated wealth to their names and tend to live on the paycheck to paycheck treadmill.

Yet, many paths exist to building wealth which have little to do with wages and income. Wealthy people tend to practice daily habits that are designed to protect and grow their assets and help keep their body and mind in balance, according to financial experts who’ve studied subject.

They have found over and over again that you don’t have to be a high-income one-percenter to be wealthy. Many wealthy individuals never made more than $60,000 to $70,000 per year, but did a very good job of managing their expenses, cash flow and spending behavior. “Many people who live in expensive homes and drive luxury cars do not actually have much wealth”, according to Thomas and Danko. “Then, we discovered something even odder: Many people who have a great deal of wealth do not even live in upscale neighborhoods.”

Wealthy individuals generated several million dollars of net worth, simply because they started financial planning early in life, they saved as aggressively as they could afford to, and they invested that money in assets and stayed invested over the long. In short, “one of the reasons that millionaires are economically successful is that they think differently.”

Live Below Your Means and Practice Gratitude

“Wealth is more often the result of a lifestyle of hard work, perseverance, planning, and, most of all, self-discipline.” Thomas Stanley and William Danko

Related to not showing off your wealth, authors Stanley and Danko found that the vast majority of millionaires didn’t spend a lot of money and were grateful for things they did own and the lifestyle they lived. In fact, they spent well below their means given their fortunes. In addition, the majority of the wealthy reported that they created and followed a personal budget, and created and maintain a gratitude journal. In other words, they respected their wealth, kept their spending on a tight leash and practice gratitude daily.

There are a few key habits of building wealth:

1. Remember to pay yourself first. Basically, paying yourself first is about having your financial and budgeting ducks in a row. One key to building wealth is creating a budget and sticking to it. Wealthy people know how to hold the line on discretionary spending items that can help them increase the “invest” portion of their monthly budget.
2. Look ahead at your goals. Wealthy people typically set concrete goals, both personal and financial, and have a long-term focus that looks years, if not decades, down the road. The more specific the goals and the longer term the goals are, the better. The wealthy understand that it begins with setting personal goals—what you want to get out of life and how you might prioritize your list. And once you have an idea what you want to accomplish personally, you can plot a financial road map to help steer you there. In other words, the path to wealth involves starting early, and focusing on the long term.
3. Do your homework; keep your cool. Markets go up, and markets go down—often suddenly and for no apparent reason. Define your comfort level with risk, keep your emotions in check, and recognize what you can and can’t control. According to Siuty, there’s no “secret sauce,” except that, to build wealth, it helps to “stay disciplined, be methodical, and not let emotions get the better of you.”
4. Lead a non-lavish lifestyle. Despite the popular characterization of rich people throwing money wantonly around in movies and TV, in reality, wealthier folks actually tend to look for value in their purchases. They generally understand the difference between price and value. In other words, they’re not afraid to open the pocketbook, but they tend to expect value in return.
5. Always expand your education. Education is one of the keys to success, and reading is one of the most efficient ways to learn. According to Thomas Corley, author of Rich Habits: 67% of the rich watch TV for one hour or less a day. Only 6% of the wealthy watch reality shows, he wrote, while 78% of the poor do. And, 86% of the wealthy “love to read,” with most of them reading for self-improvement.
6. Get up early, eat healthy, exercise. The wisdom that “time is money” goes all the way back to Benjamin Franklin, so it’s no surprise that the wealthy tend to wake early and make the most of their time. The other aphorism the wealthy take to heart is “health is wealth.” According to Corley, 57% of wealthy people count calories every day, while 70% eat fewer than 300 calories of junk food per day. Some 76% do aerobic exercise at least four days per week.
7. Practice Gratitude. Gratitude makes people more optimistic and positive. It improves relationships, which is strongly correlated with financial success, as well as health, happiness and longevity. And, grateful people are less likely to purchase things they don’t need and that can help them save more! The bottom line is this: It doesn’t matter how much you have if you don’t appreciate it! Without gratitude, you’ll never feel successful and wealthy, no matter your net worth. So regardless of your level of financial success, practicing gratitude is essential.

Seeking a life of balance in mind and body, creating measurable goals, and prioritizing saving and investing, can help put you on the right path, and help keep you from straying from that path. And the earlier you start, the better.

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