“Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people’s criticisms, carry out your plan.” Paul J. Meyer

Life Coaching is focused on nurturing, advising, building and on win/win for both the coach and the recipient of the coaching. If you are a coach, you are a builder of men and women. It is a grand responsibility and opportunity! It is a chance to postively impact countless people’s lives for the better! It is a chance to become the leader and a builder of men and women you were meant to be!

In Coaching, coaches may discuss the negative thoughts and energy from their client’s in order to assist their client move forward, but they do not analyze, diagnose, or attempt to treat these behaviors or disorders. If these are observed, or concern is raised regarding these areas, the coach’s will encourage the to seek professional counseling.

In Coaching, the coach understands that the client has the answer. Thus, the coach will nudge or partner to help the client discover it. Even though the coach may have had a similar experience, they are not the client, so the coach’s solution may not work for the client. In short, the coach may share her or his experiences to show empathy with the client or to point out possibilities, but there is no premise that is the solution for the client.

Coaches work hard to be objective. Their advice is not influenced by their relationship so advice is not flavored with that in mind. Coaches know from experience and research that people who write down their goals and create an plan of action to reach those goals, are much more likely to achieve what they desire in life.

“Enter every activity without giving mental recognition to the possibility of defeat. Concentrate on your strengths, instead of your weaknesses… on your powers, instead of your problems.” Paul J. Meyer

Paul J. Meyer’s Personal Success Plan proposes you:

• Crystallize your thinking. Know what you want. Determine a specific goal, and dedicate yourself to its attainment. You can’t move forward until you know what you’re moving toward.
• Develop a plan for achieving your goal and a deadline for its attainment. The first step is to plan. Plan your progress carefully, in small, achievable steps that won’t overwhelm you, and choose a deadline. A time limit is a greater motivator for success than you realize.
• Develop a sincere desire for the things you want in life. Develop a sincere desire for those things you want is a motivator for your activity. It’s what pushes you to do what you need to do. Focus on creating a habit of success, and doing what successful people do to have success.
• Develop supreme confidence in yourself and your ability. The #1 reason that people aren’t as successful as they want to be, is because they lack confidence in themselves. Concentrate on your strengths, focus on your power. Remember what you’re good at, and focus on it. Ignore the rest.
• Develop a “dogged determination” to follow through on your plan regardless of obstacles, criticism, or circumstances or what other people say, think, or do. “Construct your determination with sustained effort, controlled action, and concentrated energy. Opportunities never come to those who wait, they’re captured by those who dare to attack”, states Paul J. Meyer

“Dogged determination” can be called, “Guts, Courage, a Raw Refusal to Quit.”

Focus your confidence and desire on your strengths and power and against the mental enemies (the 5 de-motivators of… fear, doubt, worry, indecision, and negative thinking). We like to make excuses and say we can’t do it, but that’s exactly what holds us back from reaching our potential.

If you are experiencing negative thoughts or any negative emotions it’s usually because you are focusing on – – fear, doubt, worry, indecision and negative thinking.

Attitude is everything! Attitude is a habit of thought and a conscious choice. Who you are now is a function of specific choices that you have made and habits you’ve embraced. You are where you are and what you are because of the dominating thoughts that occupy your mind and habits that dominated your day. You have the power to change, to be, and to do anything … so use it!

• They want to do business with me.
• I got what it takes!
• I do all things through Christ who strengthens me! Christ is my Savior and Lord of my life.
• Anyone can become financially independent and free.

Coaches help clients create healthy and effective habits, not restrictions!

References:

1. https://thewellnesssociety.org/wheel-of-life-coaching-exercise-a-step-by-step-guide/
2. https://lrsuccess.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Personal-Success-Workbook.pdf
3. https://www.lornarasmussen.com/paul-j-meyers-million-dollar-success-plan/
4. https://www.icfaustin.org/Resources/Documents/