Live the best life, we must overcome and free ourselves from bitterness. Focus on what you need to focus on. Take Personal responsibility, it is what you choose to do:

1. Let it go!

An individual can’t keep blaming the past for their current predicament.

• Get rid of all bitterness.
• Bitterness hinders the work of the Holy Spirit in our hearts.
• Bitterness is deep seated anger that comes from hurt.
• Never base forgiveness on restitution or the actions of others.
• Forgiveness must be based on one’s own choices and actions. For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
• Whatever you pray for, believe you’ll receive it. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.
• Live in the power of forgiveness.
• Jesus said…Father forgive them, they do not know what they do.

2. Live it Up!

• Stop living in the past; start living in the present.
• Seek the peace and prosperity of that city;
• Increase and don’t decrease.
• Build something. Plant something.
• Enjoy the land of abundance.
• Bitterness keeps us from abundance; Forgiveness leads us to abundance.

3. Look Ahead!

• Whatever that difficult season is will end.
• God will bring you back to peace, prosperity and abundance.
• Don’t be a victim of your past. Be a visionary of your future.
• I can do all things through Christ whom strengthens me.
• Be a Visionary of your Future.

Source: Jeremiah 29:4-11