Most Valuable Retirement Assets

“Retirement is like an iceberg, where 90% of what’s really taking place lies below the surface, absent from traditional financial plans and conversations” Robert Laura

For a long and fulfilling life in retirement, you need much more than financial resources and financial security. Consequently, there are more valuable retirement assets than financial.

Retirement planning is typically related solely to financial planning, all about numbers. It centers around one question: Do your financial assets — pension, 401(k)s/IRAs, Social Security, property, sale of a business, etc. — provide enough income to fund your desired retirement lifestyle?

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You’ll need enough money to get by, of course, but you don’t have to be super wealthy to be happy. In fact, life satisfaction tops out at an annual salary of $95,000, on average, according to a study by psychologists from Purdue University. Enough money to never have to worry about going broke or paying for medical care is important. But financial freedom is not the only or even the most important piece of a fulfilling retirement.

Once you have a retirement plan in place, it is essential to focus on all those things money cannot buy. There are non-financial assets that studies show can improve life satisfaction in retirement. According to Kiplinger Magazine, they include:

  1. Good Health (Health is Wealth) – Good health is the most important ingredient for a happy retirement, according to a Merrill Lynch/Age Wave report. Studies show that exercise and a healthy diet can reduce the risk of developing certain health conditions, increase energy levels, boost your immune system, and improve your mood.
  2. Strong Social Connections (Emotional Well-Being) – Happier retirees were found to be those with more social interactions with friends and family, according to one Gallup poll. Further, social isolation has been linked to higher rates of heart disease and stroke, increased risk of dementia, and greater incidence of depression and anxiety. A low level of social interaction is just as unhealthy as smoking, obesity, alcohol abuse and physical inactivity.
  3. Purpose – Retirees with a sense of purpose or meaning were three times more likely to say “helping people in need” brings them happiness in retirement than “spending money on themselves.” Purpose can fall into three buckets, which means getting involved with your place of worship or spiritual pursuits, using your talents in service to others, and doing what you’ve always wanted to do.
  4. Learning and Growing – Experts believe that ongoing education and learning new things may help keep you mentally sharp simply by getting you in the habit of staying mentally active. Exercising your brain may help prevent cognitive decline and reduce the risk of dementia.
  5. Optimistic Outlook – Optimistic people tend to expect that good things will happen in the future. A fair amount of scientific evidence suggests that being optimistic contributes to good health, both mental and physical and may lower risk of developing cardiovascular disease and other chronic ailments and a longer life, and people with higher levels of optimism lived longer. Optimism is a trait that anyone can develop. Studies have shown people are able to adopt a more optimistic mindset with very simple, low-cost exercises, starting with consciously reframing every situation in a positive light. Over time, your brain is essentially rewired to think positively.
  6. Gratitude – People who counted their blessings had a more positive outlook on life, exercised more, reported fewer symptoms of illness and were more likely to help others. Gratitude enhances people’s satisfaction with life while reducing their desire to buy stuff.
  7. Dog Ownership – Older dog owners who walked their dogs at least once a day got 20% more physical activity than people without dogs and spent 30 fewer minutes a day being sedentary, on average, according to a study published in The Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health. Research has also indicated that dogs help soothe those suffering from cognitive decline, and the physical and mental health benefits of owning a dog can boost the longevity of the owner.

Retirement is major transition made up of many financial as well as life decisions. This is why it is important to create and to adhere a retirement plan as early as possible. That way you can spend more time focusing on everything else that equally matters.


References:

  1. https://www.kiplinger.com/retirement/happy-retirement/601160/7-surprisingly-valuable-assets-for-a-happy-retirement

Life on the Edge

“As you get older, the days go by quicker and you need to make the time count.” Mary Peachin, Octogenarian

As you age, it becomes more important to “live each day right to the limit”, states octogenarian Mary Peachin, in Costco Connection magazine, September 2021, Members Connection. Peachin has “walk the talk” and lived her life as a self proclaim world-traveling, deep sea diving adrenaline junkie. “If your body aches, you ignore it and keep on trucking”, she preaches.

When it comes to going after what you love in life, do not take no for an answer. You should expect and intend to live a life well lived and always believe the best is yet to come

“Life is too short not to enjoy it.”

Make your life happen and take action today. Be amongst the few who dared to live their dreams. Live your life in such a way that there is no regret.

Time is short; live every day for a higher purpose. Let’s invest the limited time we have on your life’s purpose and mission. Do not focus on your problems and challenges; instead focus on purpose and destination.

Life is brief and it passes quickly. The average American male lives to be 70 years 4 months. The average American female lives 70 years 4 months. To live life to its fullest, it is not the quantity of your life, but the quality.

Time is running out for all of us.

“Your job will not take care of you when your elderly and sick, your friends and family will.”

  1. Select a few friends to be close to in your life and communicate and strengthen your relationship with them
  2. Get over those who disappoint you and refuse to let those people steal your joy
  3. Lift up and encourage those who are recovering from failure. Treat people with Grace.
  4. Ignore your critics. Decide to see the good in the experience and growth, the lessons you learned and the relationships you made.
  5. Stay fully focused on your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Believe the best! Christ teaches us to believe the best…faith, hope and love. Remember to rejoice and be glad. If God is for us, who can be against us!

The most effective way to live life on the edge is to “find an edge and Live there”, states Peachin. And, you can start to “find an edge” by writing down your dreams and priorities in life, and then focusing on fulfilling those written dreams and priorities. It starts with knowing what you want, and it ends with getting what you wanted. It’s often that simple.

Save for and invest in the things that matter most!

In every positive or negative situation, there are always options. Remember you are the one pulling the strings, and when things look hopeless, it’s because you’re choosing not look at the things that truly matter. You’re choosing to see the the bad stuff, and they have little to do with your ability to change your circumstances. The trick is that you have to see the ocean of opportunity, not that little bucket of water (problems) that you tripped over.

We must decide to see the good and not dwell on the failure, but instead focus on the positives from the experience. Limits do not exist. You have weaknesses of course and we all do, but focus on your strengths. Remember if you’re feeling scared and fearful, it means you’re trying something new.

People don’t run marathons because it feels good.

When you feel bad about your situation, you’re thinking about the mistakes of yesterday, and not the opportunity of right now and the hope for tomorrow. You’re thinking about what has and what can go wrong, and not what can go right.

When you’re feeling defeated and discouraged, ascertain what you’re really focusing on. It important to focus on how far you’ve come, the opportunities that lie ahead, and the resources available you have to go forward.

“What you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it.” Oprah Winfrey

Always think bigger and focus on your purpose. Build the world as you want it to be.


References:

  1. Costco Connection, September 2021, Vol. 36, No. 9, pg. 119
  2. https://personalexcellence.co/blog/101-ways-to-live-your-life-to-the-fullest/

“Those who are the happiest are not necessarily those for whom life has been easiest. Emotional stability results from an attitude. It is refusing to yield to depression and fear, even when black clouds float overhead. It is improving that which can be improved and accepting that which is inevitable.” ― James C. Dobson, Life on the Edge: The Next Generation’s Guide to a Meaningful Future

Chase Your Purpose, Not Your Passion

Focus less on what makes you feel passionate, and more on what you truly care about, your purpose. Harvard Business School Professor Jon Jachimowicz

Chase Your Purpose, Not Your Passion, according to new Harvard Business Review research. The research shows that chasing your passion makes you less satisfied at work because work can be often difficult, draining, and even boring.

Research on passion suggests three key things:

  1. Passion is not something one finds, but rather, it is something to be developed;
  2. It is challenging to pursue your passion, especially as it wanes over time; and
  3. Passion can also lead us astray, and it is therefore important to recognize its limits.

Trade “purpose” for “passion”. 

We try to pursue our passion when we chase after what gives us the most joy or provides the most pleasure. In one study, researchers found that commencement speakers gave students advice on how to pursue their passion. Much of the advice centered on “focusing on what you love” as the way to follow your passion. But some speakers described the pursuit of passion as “focusing on what you care about.”

The distinction is subtle but meaningful: focusing on what you love associates passion with what you enjoy and what makes you happy, whereas focusing on what you care about aligns passion with your purpose, your values and the impact you want to have on your community and the world.

Instead of asking what makes you happy and “following your passion,” instead ask yourself what you care deeply about…what’s your purpose in life, according to Harvard Business School professor Jon Jachimowicz.

By focusing on purpose, you align your work with your deepest values, and also relieve yourself of the expectation that the long slog of a career will be all (or even mostly) happiness and sunshine. 

Purpose gives you the resilience to succeed.  

Jachimowicz says research backs up his claim that chasing purpose will make you more successful than chasing passion.  “In a set of studies, he found that passion alone is only weakly related to employees’ performance at their work. But the combination of passion and perseverance–i.e., the extent to which employees stick with their goals even in the face of adversity–was related to higher performance,” he writes. 

A well-rooted sense of purpose gives you way more resilience than passion alone ever could. And that resilience is what is likely to make you successful over the long haul.

Try to follow your passion and ask yourself this simple question: What do I truly care about?

Purpose is a far better career compass than passion and joy.  

“You don’t “find your calling,” you fight for it…” Dave Isay, StoryCorps founder

“You don’t just “find” your calling — you have to fight for it”, explains Dave Isay, StoryCorps founder. “People who’ve found their calling have a fire about them. They’re the people who are dying to get up in the morning and go do their work.”


References:

  1. https://hbr.org/2019/10/3-reasons-its-so-hard-to-follow-your-passion
  2. https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/new-harvard-research-to-be-successful-chase-your-purpose-not-your-passion.html?cid=sf01001
  3. https://ideas.ted.com/7-lessons-about-finding-the-work-you-were-meant-to-do/

Knowing Your Why: Financial Freedom

WHY is the purpose, the cause, or the belief that drives every organization and every person’s individual career.

“Knowing Your Why” is the single most important thing you can do to energize your journey towards being a better you and to achieve a better financial future for you and your family. Why is all about your purpose. Why do you get out of bed in the morning? And why should anyone care?

Simon Sinek, author of the book Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Finding Purpose for You and Your Team, writes that it is only when you understand your “why” (or your purpose) that you’ll be more capable of pursuing the things that give you fulfillment. It will serve as your point of reference for all your actions and decisions from this moment on, allowing you to measure your progress and know when you have met your life and financial goals.

When you’ve identified your life’s purpose, it’s easier to focus on what truly matters. To stay focused on your goals, they must be important to you. Your subconscious can try to trick you into believing that you want one thing, when in reality these things do very little to help you live out your purpose.

Understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing is the single most important question you can ask with respect to your life and financial well-being. Failure to ask and answer that question can be the single greatest oversight you can make when it comes to saving and investing. Those who do have a strong sense of why they are investing are more successful financially.

Understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing in the first place is critical. Your why serves as your compass to stay on course or your North Star in the often hectic day-to-day grind that can derail you from reaching your goals. It’s so easy to get caught up in the minutiae of chasing fads, hot stocks or following the investing herd that you forget what you’re trying to really accomplish in the first place.

Saving and investing with a purpose

Saving and investing without a purpose will leave you filling empty. Saving and investing should be a means to an end…financial freedom . If money is the end, it will likely create more problems than it solves. Thus, knowing your why for saving and investing is an essential first step.

But, what is financial freedom? Financial freedom is about much more than just having money, writes Robert Kiyosaki. It’s the freedom to be who you really are and do what you really want in life. It’s about following your passion, making choices that aren’t influenced by your bank account, and living life on your terms.

Beyond serving to tell you what financial goals you should be pursuing in the first place, knowing why you’re saving for the future, and investing to grow your money and to build wealth serves two important purposes:

  • It motivates you, and
  • It orients you.

To find your personal “Why” in life, you really have to dig deep down into your conscious mind. You must ask yourself several pertinent questions such as:

  • Why do I work every day?
  • What do I value most?
  • What do I want to do with my life?
  • What is my purpose and goals in life?
  • Why do I want to have a positive influence in my community and on the world?

“He who has a why can endure any how.”  Frederick Nietzsche

Sinek and his team provide a simple format to use to draft your WHY Statement:

“TO ____ SO THAT ____.”

The first blank represents your contribution — the contribution you make to the lives others through your WHY. And the second blank represents the impact of your contribution.

“You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off of you.” Maya Angelou

The key to harnessing your passion and to live a life of contentment is understanding your “why.” Why are you passionate about saving for the future and investing to grow your money and building wealth? Is it because you desire financial freedom and have a new lease on life?

What if we awoke every single day knowing your why? For no better reason than to be better than yourself and to achieve financial freedom in order to leave our family and our community in a better condition than we found it?


References:

  1. https://engineeringmanagementinstitute.org/knowing-your-why/
  2. https://www.deanbokhari.com/find-your-why/
  3. https://www.developgoodhabits.com/your-why/
  4. https://www.richdad.com/what-is-financial-freedom
  5. https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/243737
  6. https://www.jordanharbinger.com/simon-sinek-whats-your-why-and-where-do-you-find-it/

Sir Christopher Wren and The Story of Three Bricklayers

Mindset affects just about everything–including your attitude. Your attitude is based upon your beliefs. Beliefs affect your decisions. Decisions affect your behavior, behavior affect your actions, actions affect your results.

After the Great Fire of London destroyed much of the medieval city of London in 1666, Sir Christopher Wren designed new churches and supervised the reconstruction of some of London’s most important buildings. His name is synonymous with London architecture.

He produced ambitious plans for rebuilding the whole area but they were rejected, partly because property owners insisted on keeping the sites of their destroyed buildings.

Wren did design fifty-one (51) new city churches, as well as the new St Paul’s Cathedral. In 1669, he was appointed surveyor of the royal works which effectively gave him control of all government building in the country. He was knighted in 1673.

Story of Three Bricklayers

We see things as we are; not as they are

The story of three bricklayers is a true story. After the great fire of 1666 that leveled London, the world’s most famous architect, Sir Christopher Wren, was commissioned to rebuild St Paul’s Cathedral.

One day in 1671, Sir Wren observed three bricklayers on a scaffold, one crouched, one half-standing and one standing tall, working very hard and fast.

  • To the first bricklayer, Christopher Wren asked the question, “What are you doing?” to which the bricklayer replied, “I’m a bricklayer. I am cutting this stone to a certain size and shape.” He was just doing a task
  • The second bricklayer, responded, “I’m a builder. I’m building a wall. I’m working hard laying bricks to feed my family.” He was just earning a living
  • But the third brick layer, the most productive of the three, when asked the question, “What are you doing?” replied with a gleam in his eye, “I’m a cathedral builder. I am helping Sir Christopher Wren build St. Paul’s Cathedral for The Almighty.” He was doing his small part of building a great cathedral.

The lessons from the story of three bricklayers:

  • Big Picture Thinking – Being able to see the end result and how your work contributes to that end.
  • Attitude – A positive attitude and pride in what you are doing will show up in your work and your motivation.
  • Connection to the Organization’s Mission – Employees who are rightly connected to the organization’s mission, vision, values, and goals are happier, more engaged, and more productive employees.

The Power of Purpose and Calling

The story of the three bricklayers is also a metaphor on the power of purpose, where the “cathedral builder,” demonstrates a personal expression of purpose that transforms his attitude and gives a higher meaning to his work. Another term for purpose is “calling.” For the first bricklayer, building the wall was a job. For the second bricklayer it was an occupation. For the third bricklayer, it was a calling.

A calling reflects our universal need to matter, to influence, and make a difference in the world around us.  Victor Frankel made this clear in his book, The Meaning of Life.  He wrote about how some people survived the holocaust, but so many didn’t.  One of the things he identified was those who had a purpose or reason to continue to live that was beyond themselves tended to survive, while those who were focused primarily on themselves did not.  Those who survived found some meaning in their painful circumstances.  The meaning they found was in caring for and helping others in this horrible experience.


References:

  1. https://www.thoughtco.com/sir-christopher-wren-rebuilder-of-london-177429
  2. http://www.bbc.co.uk/history/historic_figures/wren_christopher.shtml
  3. https://sacredstructures.org/mission/the-story-of-three-bricklayers-a-parable-about-the-power-of-purpose

Healthy Aging and Lifestyle: Achieving Happiness and Purpose

“If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my years on this planet, it’s that the happiest and most fulfilled people are those who devoted themselves to something bigger and more profound than merely their own self-interest.” John Glenn

Healthy Aging with purpose is about embracing opportunities to reshape your lives, connect with and help one another, and change the world for the better —all while learning, growing, getting better and having fun!

Work at your relationships all the time. Take care of friendships, hold people you love close to you, take advantage of birthdays and celebrate fiercely.
Patti LaBelle


References:

  1. https://seniorplanet.org/14-of-the-best-quotes-about-aging/
  2. https://www.zyto.com/5-inspirational-quotes-for-healthy-aging