What Every Woman Needs To Know About Her Money

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“The lion’s share of wealth, two-thirds of wealth in the United States, is going to end up in the hands of women by the year 2030.” Jean Chatzky

The women that Jean Chatzky, New York Times Bestselling Author and financial editor at the NBC TODAY Show, has talked with “share a lack of confidence” regarding managing and investing their money. “Whether we’ve got one hundred, one hundred thousand, or one million dollars, we don’t always feel equipped to manage it, even when we’re doing exactly the right things,” she explained.

In order to create a better world, Chatzky suggests women should, “…use this power that’s coming our way to improve not just our lives, but the lives of the people that we love and care about, and the causes that  we believe in. We really do have an opportunity through giving and investing to create the world we want.”

Women…”have an opportunity through giving and investing to create the world we want.” Jean Chatzky

Chatzky offers 15 tips to help you get a handle on your finances and to create the financial future you want for yourself.  A future that aligns with your goals, values and purpose in life.

1. Talk openly about money

Chatzky explains, “We gather groups of women who don’t make a habit of talking about money with the specific purpose of talking about money…and it’s really freeing.” One open ended question she asks is, “What do you want your money to do for you?”.

2. Track your spending to see what you really value

Do you want a clear picture of your spending? More so, do you want to uncover whether or not what you say are priorities are aligned with your expenditures?

3. Determine what your ideal life actually costs

“What do you want from your life?” This is a question Chatzky believe you need to consider so that you can determine what your ideal life actually costs. Write down what you want and next to each item, list the price to do or have it.

4. Use money as a resource to buy you more time

Money is a tool which creates freedom of time and choice. Chatzy shares, “The most important thing to realize is the opportunity that you’re wasting. Money we can get more of. Time, you absolutely can’t get more of…But by moving around some of our money, we can restructure our time in a way that feels much better, much more fulfilling, and much less stressful. We are so stressed, and using our money to swap for a little bit of extra time is one great way to reduce some of that stress.”

5. Identify your money scripts

“We all have stories around money which became ingrained as children. In some cases we mimic them, in others we rebel against them. In order to know where you’re going with your financial future, it’s helpful to identify the scripts that are overtly or subliminally impacting your views and habits around money,” advises Chatzky.

6. Find financial harmony in your primary relationship

Chatzy suggests, “Listening is the key to success within a relationship. You have to understand why your partner needs what they need as much as they need to understand what you need.”

7. Don’t let money injure your friendships

“Listen and read between the lines. We know an awful lot about our friends’ financial situations, even if they tell us not one thing. We see how they spend. We see how they manage. We know if they’re stressed financially. We just have to be a little bit empathetic and open-minded about the fact that they may not have the same choices or priorities that we have. And that doesn’t mean that we can’t be great friends,” shares Chatzky.

8. Teach your kids early

It can feel scary to talk to your kids about money, especially if you feel tentative about your own financial skills. Fortunately, it doesn’t have to be challenging: “Kids have to have money in order to learn to manage money.”

9. Get paid what you deserve

To charge or get paid what you deserve, “First, you must know what you deserve and once you know what that number is, you have to ask for it:

10. Negotiating won’t hurt your outcomes

The person on the other side of the table, they are waiting for you to negotiate, according to Chatzky. They’re not going to punish you for negotiating. You may not get the money. But asking is not going to hurt you.

11. To be or not to be (an entrepreneur)

30% of US businesses are women-owned, and that number is rising steadily.

12. Spend on others

Studies show that when you do for others, you’re guaranteed to feel happier. This includes when you spend on others. “There’s no sense in feeling guilty for spending money that’s not sabotaging our financial life”, says Chatzky.

13. Talk with aging parents

“If you haven’t had a conversation with your parents before you’ve hit age forty or they hit age seventy, it’s time”, she comments

14. Have a little fun with your money

Chatzky comes from a judgment-free zone when it comes to how you spend your money. But, “know how much it costs” since you earned that money and yours to do with as you want.

15. Consider your legacy

“You have to think about what’s important to you. That’s where a lot of us fall down when it comes to charitable giving”, Chatzky says.

Building wealth

If you want to build wealth, you need only do four things, according to Chatzky:

  1. Make a decent living.
  2. Spend less than you make.
  3. Invest the money you donʼt spend.
  4. Protect the financial world you build so that a disaster doesnʼt take it all away from you.

Building wealth sounds easy, so why is it so hard, particularly for women?  “Because women according to Chatzky, “make excuses”. We tell ourselves that we’re “just not good with money,” or that our husbands “like taking care of the finances.”

In short, “what successful women want from their money are: independence, security, choices, a better world, and–oh yes–way less stress, not just for themselves but for their kids, partners, parents, and friends.”

To read more: https://www.vunela.com/jean-chatzky-on-the-top-15-things-every-woman-needs-to-know-about-her-money/

References:

  1. https://www.vunela.com/jean-chatzky-on-the-top-15-things-every-woman-needs-to-know-about-her-money/
  2. https://www.jeanchatzky.com/books/
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